We all have them - those things that keep us from being better - whether its a trait, a personality flaw, financial despair, or simple luck - we all that which keep us from being great..perfect!
However why does it sting so much when its compared to a new rival? Competition i believe is innate..we compete for attention, for money, for work, for LOVE! ah huh! We do! remember that your "best" self is what gets the attention of that person that has caught your interest. But what if that person has a better suitor? One with more patience, with more understanding, better sense of humor, better outlook...this person is WONDERRRFUL!!!! Heck this person even has better luck, money, car and yes more money than you do!
So how does one cope with that? how does one get confident and secure enough when you know your competitor has you beat?
As cocky and self reliant, and forthcoming as I can be, this type of realism is one that definitely makes one stop a minute to make out the next move.
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